Wow how amazing is this article!! This totally changed my focus of “submission”. All this while, I thought my role was to submit to the husband (and yes it is) but that includes the man that I may be dating now, who is only just a boyfriend NOT a husband. This boyfriend is still a Man, NOT yet a husband.
So glad I found some insight from Russell D. Moore;
Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as unto the Lord. Yes and Amen. But, women, stop submitting to men.